Let me help you

When my husband and I started dating he shared a story about his ex-wife. He believed he would never measure up to what she wanted in a partner and husband. He told me that she expected him to be Jesus in a pair of jeans. She wanted the religious figure in a normal man. No matter what he did he would never be perfect.

No one is. No one will ever be. That kind of expectation is inconceivable. But this was his story of why his marriage didn’t end with a happily ever after. The more he tried the less she was willing to meet him.

I remember this conversation sitting across from him at a diner. I still remember taking it all in and how he looked as he shared the story. After all, it was his story. And I began to question my own past stories and how my ex possibly saw me (or the lack of me…for that matter).

What truly happens when we dive into the old stories is that we also return to the feelings via some magical time machine. We begin to experience it all over again. We allow the stories at times to dictate our current events. We get stuck in this toxic loop and we can’t figure out how to change the emotions.

But…they are…stories. They are chronological events that create our future, especially if we don’t learn to heal. They are part of our history. At times the further distance we have from these stories the more complex we make them; the more distortion we also create. We give them more power than those stories deserve. We continue to manifest that things we know as true.

I collect stories from all walks of life. Even when someone hasn’t verbally shared. I have some bizarre gift of just knowing increments of their history. It’s not always a wonderful feeling. Sometimes it feels like a curse.

We move into our daily lives based on our past experiences. We get to this present moment transcending from our history. How we perceive those experiences determines how we evolve spiritually, physically and emotionally.

My husband has moved past those experiences through heartache and acceptance. I have done the same. We have learned to navigate the past, molding new journeys that include our partnership. That’s the relating part of relationships. We, together, have learned to flow into one another while releasing the past. By being together we have moved on to new and improved stories.

I’m here, darlings, building a business based on helping others rewrite their old beliefs and programming. I can help you edit your story so you do not feel stuck or reliving the same challenges.

Send me a message if you want to schedule a session (face to face or long distance). Our stories are powerful. They are amazing. But, they aren’t meant to keep you in an invisible prison that doesn’t allow you to live your best life.

Let’s work together through deep intuitive counseling to reach old beliefs and help rewrite a freer you. You do not deserve to continue living in a loop of resentments and self-sabotage.

Email: dharma.1111@hotmail.com.

Letting Go of the Old

Oh darlings! People can only meet you at the level of their awareness and perception. It goes for everything: religion, politics, love…whatever. You cannot impose your beliefs onto anyone. If they’ve never experienced what you have experienced they may not understand empathy. If they’ve never walked through your fires they cannot understand the scars and burns from the struggles.

It’s okay. I promise. You don’t have to force anything on them. The beauty of this life is that we choose to learn from diversities…or not at all.

But, you can always always always stay in a higher vibration. You don’t have to point out flaws or insult to make a point. You don’t have to degrade or run someone’s name through the dirt. You go on. Ego is a nasty bitch with hidden agendas.

I’ve learned that those who care will see your character by how you respond or react to any given event and situation. By reacting to something that you don’t agree on you are showing exactly what they want you to show…your ass in the most unflattering of lights.

A disgruntled person will go through every possible avenue to prove their ego’s righteousness. That’s what the “personality” always wants. It wants to be acknowledged and cheered on.

Let it go. Send love to those who hurt you. You have got to move on or the drama will continue to show up.

Love. Love yourself enough to move past the hurt and allow others to keep going. Fill your light with integrity and humility. It’s lovely.

Shaken Up

We are being shaken up to wake in truth. The shift is happening in a large scale. We are women, mothers, sisters, daughters and friends. We are the divine feminine rising in masses. Stay in love and do not allow fear to consume you. This is happening on a massive collective soul level. Together we can heal and help the world heal. When one voice is heard it echoes across the world. So imagine what millions of beautiful voices speaking their truth can do to release old wounds? Regardless of these outcomes we can continue to show the world that truth prevails. And more than anything the light we continue to carry towards one another transcends this moment. We are making history every single second. This is one of the most powerful times ever. And we are witnessing our strength in numbers. I am healing my own traumas and deep treacherous memories. So thank you. Thank you to all the women (and men) for opening up and sharing their own stories of horrific assaults and events. I stand in awed of the magic we are creating. I love you.

Your Freedom to be You

I have come to a place in life that is quite different than any other time before this. I have become ultra sensitive to my own yearnings and feelings. I have begun (finally) to honor those things that are uncomfortable and those that bring me to a higher space of ecstatic joy.

Who knew this evolution could be so potent and magical!

I used to walk on eggshells. I was constantly worrying about how others would see me (in person or through my writing). I would sensor things in order not to hurt anyone’s feelings. That was NOT fair to my spirit. I would question my messages and stories. I was keeping me hostage on many levels.

I learned a powerful lesson: I am only responsible for what I say, not how others interpret my words.

Why should I censor everything because it is being personalized? I don’t attack anyone in my writing or in person. I don’t ask anyone to read my blog or my postings. I rarely mention anything about religious groups, political agendas, world news or any gray matter that can cause friction. I realize you cannot make every person happy.

I became free to be me. Once I was able to let go of how others saw me I could be authentic. In my case, it’s through writing. In your life it might be singing, coaching, playing a sport, yoga, or whatever. The moment you no longer worry how others see you your soul elevates to a higher frequency. This human business is hard enough without giving others power over your passions. So STOP! Do what you feel like doing in however shape that shows up! You’ve got this, darling!!!

Be Free, Darling

I want you to feel free. I desire that for you. I wish you to know what it feels to be unstuck…no longer bounded by society or anyone else making you feel like a prisoner. It’s all an illusion. No one can make you feel anything. You hold the key to your freedom. You are the prison and the moment you stop giving someone the power….ahhhh…you will fly. I promise. I was there. I know. And now, on the other side, I wonder why it took me so long.

Someone told me this week that they are tired of feeling that they are prisoners of everyone else’s life but their own. She’s given her power away. And at this point she’s determined to continue believing this lie. She will create stories to fill that reality. It’s old programming.

We have the ability to change every single moment. Our thoughts drive our intention. It’s not easy. Hell, it feels impossible. But it’s not. You are possible. You are magnificent. ~m.a.p.

The Quest

What calls your name? How are you showing up in life? What pushes and pulls you? What lights you up? Do you feel stuck?

People want change. I am seeing it more and more. They can’t really figure out how to go about it but they feel it in their souls. We are waking up to some deep yearning. It’s time. We don’t want to keep doing things the same way while expecting different results.

So how do we go about it? How can we utilize this forum to help each other?

There are many folks who can help. I have life coaches, counselors, and Trail Blazers who read this blog. I know writers, musicians, artists and creators. I know healers and teachers. And whoever I don’t know might just be friends with someone I do know. Please use this post as an opportunity to share what you do. We can all use help: spiritually, emotionally, physically, professionally, relationship guidance and parenting. Whatever it is please put a link to your info if you have a page.

Let’s get you to the right person. It’s time. You don’t need to merely exist. You must live to the fullest. You have a duty to your soul to be doing what makes you happy…